Blowjob (also known as Fellatio) is a sexual act that is performed orally on the penis of another person. It is usually performed as before other sexual activities such as vaginal or anal sex (Foreplay). Mistakes abound when performing this sexual act and the receiving partner might not want to have a go at the act again.
It should also be noted that this act is very difficult to perform, this is due to the sensitivities of individuals to the natural gag reflexes. Some people have mastered the art of suppressing this reflexes.
If you are also looking for ways to enjoy sex without having to worry about pregnancy, a blowjob is the way to go. The chances of contracting sexually transmitted diseases are lower for blowjobs when compared to other forms of sex.
I will be sharing some mistakes that partners make when giving blowjobs;
1. Squeezing the Penis too hard
The purpose of pleasure becomes defeated especially if your partner is feeling pains instead of pleasure. The penis is just a group of soft muscles. Squeezing your man’s penis only puts stress on his penile muscles. Trust me, men hate it! You’d hear things like “it’s not a stress ball”
2. Not getting it wetting enough
Partners are used to assuming that the mouth is wet enough to get the penis wet during the blow job, this is false. The saliva in the mouth alone cannot do a perfect job at wetting the penis. I would advise getting a very good lube that can help with getting the penis. This helps your man coming back for more.
3. Ignoring the balls
The balls are also part of the penis. In order to create an image that his balls do not matter, you also have to play with his balls. So, reach out for his balls to boost his ego!
4. Not using your tongue
Most people treat a blow job like going up and over their partner like a vacuum, a blow job is more than that. In order to make the act more pleasurable, one can use the tongue. The trick is to run the tongue like a frenulum especially on the underside of his penis.
5. Not keeping a consistent rhythm
Just like you wouldn’t want your guy changing his technique every 10 seconds if he was going down on you, no guy also loves a change in rhythm. It is important to keep a constant rhythm.
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