Has your sex life become so dull, tedious, repetitious, and lacking in variety that you just don’t care anymore? Well, it is time to look for creative ways to put some spice back into the relationship.
The number one rule to keeping things steamy in your bedroom is to be spontaneous and a little “risky”, and this list should sure get you that excitement back and even spark more creative ideas. Have fun reading it!
Best Places to Have Risqué Sex
Get Outside the Bedroom
Whoever told you sex must be in the bedroom lied. That’s probably why you are getting bored and wanting out! Anywhere in your house but the bedroom is definitely hot, especially if it is spontaneous.
Walk up behind your partner while in the kitchen and get it on the counter or kitchen floors. Or, the couch when you are getting comfortable and cozy for a movie, or in the middle of the movie. Start with hot steamy kisses and see where that gets you.
Other places like the shower, bathtub, toilet, stairs, guestroom, closet, and balcony are both romantic and a little risky.
In your Office
I know this thought has crossed your mind before, hasn’t it? Imagine just casually visiting your partner in their office in the middle of the day with the “evil” intentions of getting naughty. You can take some lunch with you, then have sex for dessert.
The thrill of knowing it is unethical and you should be working instead is what makes it hotter and more exciting. Just make sure you don’t get caught and get fired!
In the Car
This is a common one at most parking lots outside office buildings (makes a great lunch break, “wink”), a stadium parking lot before a game, when you get home from work, just before you get inside the house, and at the parking lot of a mall.
It could also be on a road trip, during an automatic carwash, or take the risk a notch higher by having sex in a drive-through.
The Swimming Pool
Going swimming on a sunny Saturday afternoon with your partner sounds like the ultimate plan. However, having sex in the pool makes the bonding, passion, and excitement even stronger. There is something about banging in the water with people around and thinking whether anyone is looking.
In a restroom
Public restrooms are notoriously known for being “couples’ playing ground”. It could be in a restaurant, a bar, or any other public place.
The thought of not getting caught is the thrilling bit and what makes it risky and exciting. However, you might want to stay away from gross dive bars with sticky floors and toilet paper all around.
At the Gym
We all know some of us get a little horny right after a good workout (it is our own little secret). So why wait to get home?
See, this is another reason you should be working out with your partner. You can sneak into the ladies’ room for a warm-up before starting your workout session or a cool down after a good set of exercises.
Note that, if you don’t want to be kicked out and banned from the gym, don’t get caught.
An Outdoor Adventure
Nothing beats sex outside. If you like taking walks into the woods early in the morning or late in the evening to calm your mind, then make it even better by tagging your partner along for a naughty therapy session.
The warmth of the sun rays hitting your skin, mixed with the cooling of the woods, amidst the birds chirping, sounds like something you would only see in romantic movies. Well, you could create this romantic scene for yourself and your partner too.
If you want to add a little thrill into the romance, do this on your other outside adventures too such as during hiking, camping, hunting, fishing, horseback riding, and pretty much any of your favorite adventures.
Be careful, it could get addictive!
A Rooftop
The feeling and thoughts of being on top of a building, probably overlooking the street lights at night across the neighborhood, or facing the stars in the sky, and thinking, “No one could ever see us here” turns you on in itself.
Having sex on a rooftop at night is romantic, hot, sexy, and risky all at the same time.
The Beach
There is something about having sex at the beach that feels exhilarating. Maybe it is the illicit pleasure of having sex in public that brings about a heightened sense of passion and intimacy.
Or, something about the warmth of the sun on your skin, the water occasionally hitting your bodies, or the feel of the sand on your naked bodies. It is simply unexplainable.
The Elevator
This is probably the riskiest one yet. For some people, this may be a no-go zone. For others, it is the ultimate thrill. I mean, how many seconds do you have before the elevator “tings” open? Maybe 2, maybe 3, or if you are lucky, at least 10, depending on where you are.
There is probably no elevator that is big and slow enough to let you cum. But that is the thing; raising your heartbeat and testing your limits in a split second. If you are a thrill-seeker and not afraid of going to the extreme, try it.
Oh, and be aware of the cameras in the elevator, and the fact that it may be illegal, and you may be kicked out and banned from the building, or worse, get fired from your job or land in a cell (if someone calls the cops on you).
Final Thoughts
Having sex in public is illegal and we are not necessarily advocating for breaking the laws but the reality is; we still do it (whispers), and we love it!
These places are some of the most thrilling, passionate, and sexiest to have sex, not to mention it could actually save your “starting to get boring” relationship.
If you are still a little shy to take it outside but still want to keep things spicy with your partner, there are a lot of other risqué places to have sex indoors, just outside your bedroom, as mentioned above.
You can get it real steamy in the bathtub, the shower, the floor, the kitchen counter, and your balcony or backyard. There is always a creative way to stimulate the thrills.