A lot of people struggle with oral sex. It is something that people shy away from speaking up about because they fear being embarrassed. However, there is nothing to be embarrassed about. People are different and they all like different things.
The first thing to do when you want to master giving oral sex is to watch videos. There are a lot of videos available on YouTube that teach both men and women how to give oral sex. Videos are a great way to learn because they enable you to visualise. While watching the video, you should also get yourself a prop and practice. GLAMerotica 101’s YouTube channel is a good place to start, she shows you how to please both males and females.
Practice makes perfect. The only way to become a master at anything in life is to practice it and to be present when doing that. The first few times will always be awkward. There will be a lot of saliva and maybe a few bites here and there. However, do not let that discourage you from learning how to please your partner. Your partner will appreciate you making an effort to learn and offering them pleasure. So do not be shy, just get on your knees and do it.
Most of the time we tend to focus on the end goal that we have set for ourselves. Be it making your partner have an orgasm or ejaculate. The pressure of trying to reach that goal tends to get in the way of us performing at our best. Your focus should be making sure that you are being gentle on your partner’s penis or vagina. Ensuring that you are producing enough saliva to suck your partner’s penis or not biting your partner’s labia. You can only reach your end goal if you are focused on the process of giving oral sex. This is the only way that you will see that your partner is enjoying what you are doing to them.
A lot of people prefer to keep eye contact during oral sex. This is a way to let your partner know that you are present and that your mission is to truly please them. If you are still not confident about your skills. One thing that you can do is to give oral sex blindfolded. This way your other senses and your tongue are at work and you can focus on what you are doing. This is also a good way to build confidence around your skills.
Lastly, you should enjoy what you are doing. Enjoying sucking your partner’s penis or vagina is the only way that you can truly master giving oral sex. Enjoyment will lead to lots of fun in your bedroom, lounge, or kitchen. When you enjoy doing something, you tend to always want to improve at it. You get better at it because you are having fun while doing it. It will also make you and your partner very happy in the relationship.