It’s on most sexually experimental person’s bucket list, or likely checked off it already. When it comes to sex, two can be as bad as one. But three? That’s the magic number. To distinguish between one-on-one affairs, as suspected there’s much more preparation involved. Here are some key bits of insight to advise you on your next encounter.
1.) Get Rid of The “Porn Expectations”
Unfortunately, the picture-perfect perception we get from the threesome category on Pornhub is a bit contorted. We are all realistically bodied, sweaty, clumsy humans. Now don’t get me wrong, it is fun, and an overwhelming out of body experience if the mood is spot-on. However, weird sounds, and slipping up are all possibilities among the pleasurable ones. Regardless, fulfilling this fantasy can be one of the more fun accomplishments, just remember to give yourself a reality check beforehand.
2.) Be Safe
While of course this is a general rule for anybody sexually active, it especially goes to people bringing new partners into the bedroom. Make the discussion and ensure everybody involved is getting regularly tested, alongside using general protection precautions. No ammount of fun is worth risking your safety!
3.Make Sure Everyone’s Included
There’s nothing that makes a threesome go more stale than a bag of tortilla chips you found in your grandma’s pantry, than being left out of the fun! Make sure everyone is involved. This implies an abundance of switching positions. Cycle between both partners. When you’re at a loss for your next move, remember you can do things with both your mouth and hands to keep the heat circulating.
4.) Who to Choose for Your First Time.
This seems to be the most common struggle of initiating a threesome, especially for couples. Female or Male? Should you pick someone you trust? Well as comfortable as that sounds, make sure you’re considering the bigger picture. Will insecurities, or skepticism take over you in the future because you can’t get the image out of your mind? Now when it comes to the physical attributes of the candidate, it’s a lot more enjoyable when it’s someone both you and your partner could find attraction to. Tension arrises when two out of three aren’t actually into one another, and it really takes back from the experience.